Me and my boyfriend has have had troubles for a longtime and he has not lived with us for months. However I´ve always hoped that it would be all right. So this weekend we sat down and talked and came to the conclusion (the wrong, wrong but still rational) that it´s over and that we´ll be better off in relationships with other people. I know that he´ll take responsibility and he´ll have the children once in a while but I´ll be the number one caretaker. It was sooo much to do when it was the two of us and now, not sure that I´ll manage it all by myself. My parents live quite far away from me so they cannot really help me out, although my mum is here at the moment.