oh dear poor dd and you
luckily its me with the phobia and dha dn i ahev been good at trying not to let our dd pick up on it.
I guess your only thing would be to try letting her know they won't relaly hurt her, let her watch some programmes with insects and bugs etc and let her see you or dh haolding them, or a family friend who doens' mind bugs t show confidence and reassure her
guess its going to be hard work but maybe having friends over and you helping out might make it easier