I love my mother in law. I really, really do. However, she just called up and announced taht she wants to come the whole week before and after the birth to help me out. :( I don't want her to be here. My mum is already going to be coming to help me adjust after the birth and, to be quite honest, I want to spend a few days with my husband before we become 'a family'

What should I tell her? She is so sweet and I hate hurting her feelings.