I´m sure you do fine without any tips, but here are some things that might help you on the way. I think it´s important that you show that you trust your kids and believe in them. If you encourage them to do things on their own, they´ll grow with that experience. Find something that they are good at and support them in that, no matter what it is; drawing, sports, cooking, reading, computer games... Make sure that they´ll know that you are there for them but on the other hand don´t spoil them and don´t do everything for them. Good luck! xxx